The Leadership Hack That Makes People Instantly Trust You

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I’m super excited to welcome you to this edition of The Winning Edge! My goal is to bring you game-changing tools and tactics to sharpen your competitive edge—whether you're leading a team, giving a presentation, or simply making an impact in everyday conversations.

Ever wonder why some leaders earn instant trust while others struggle to connect? The secret isn’t just confidence—it’s a strategic blend of strength and authenticity. This week, I’m revealing a powerful leadership hack that makes people instantly trust you, plus a few other quick wins to elevate your influence.
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This Week’s Insights

✅ The Leadership Hack That Builds Instant Trust —The simple mindset shift that makes people respect you
✅ Quick Communication Hack — A small tweak that boosts your credibility
✅ The 3 Elements of Instant Authority — How posture, tone, and pacing transform perception
✅ AI Tool of the Week — A cutting-edge app that refines your leadership presence
✅ Winning Presence —The subtle cues that make people hang on to your every word

THE MAIN EVENT
🎤 The Leadership Hack That Makes People Instantly Trust You

Ever noticed how some leaders command respect and trust the moment they enter a room? It’s not just their title—it’s how they communicate. The secret?

🗝️ The “Vulnerability-Power Combo”

Great leaders blend confidence with authenticity. They don’t just project authority; they also show a touch of vulnerability, which makes them relatable and trustworthy.

🚀 How to Use It Today:

1. Lead with Strength: When making a point, stand tall, speak clearly, and use a strong opening statement.

2. Add a Personal Insight: A brief admission like, “I struggled with this at first too,” makes you more relatable.

3. End with Confidence: Reaffirm your key message and deliver a strong call to action.

Example: Instead of saying, "We need to change our strategy," try this: 🎤 "I used to resist changing strategies because it felt risky. But when I saw the results, I realized it was the best decision. Here’s why we need to move forward."

By combining confidence with honesty, you connect on a human level while maintaining authority. Try this in your next meeting and see the difference!

QUICK HITTERS: Fast Wins for the Week

💡 Tip of the Week: Leaders who show empathy and decisiveness build the strongest teams. Balance both for maximum influence.

📊 Stat of the Week: 82% of employees say they’re more likely to trust a leader who admits mistakes and shows vulnerability.

🎭 Power Move: When leading a meeting, pause after key points. It makes you seem more in control and allows your message to sink in.

📖 Recommended Read: "Dare to Lead" by Brené Brown – A fantastic guide on how vulnerability makes leaders stronger, not weaker.

WEEKLY DEEP DIVE
Leadership & Influence: The 3 Elements of Instant Authority

Want to be taken seriously from the moment you speak? Master these three elements:

1. Posture & Presence: Stand with open, strong body language. Avoid fidgeting.

2. Tone & Cadence: Speak slightly slower than usual—it conveys confidence.

3. The Power of the Pause: Silence adds gravity to your words. Don’t rush!

🚀 Try This Today: Next time you speak in a leadership setting, focus on posture, tone, and pausing. You’ll instantly feel (and appear) more authoritative!

AI TIP OF THE WEEK

Enhance Your Leadership Communication with AI

Leverage AI tools to refine your communication skills:

✅ Real-Time Feedback: Use Microsoft Teams Speech Coach, which provides instant analysis of your speech patterns, including pacing, tone, and filler words. This helps you refine your delivery and sound more confident.

✅ Presentation Practice: Teams Speech Coach also allows you to rehearse presentations in a private setting, offering AI-driven insights to improve clarity, engagement, and impact.

By incorporating AI-powered coaching into your preparation, you’ll develop stronger communication skills, boost confidence, and enhance your executive presence.

WINNING WITH AI: The Future of Sales Proposals and Presentations

AI isn’t just for tech geeks or big corporations—it’s transforming how we sell, present, and communicate. The best sales teams are already using AI to:
✅ Generate compelling, tailored proposals in minutes (not hours).
✅ Turn data into engaging, visual stories that capture attention.
✅ Automate tedious tasks so they can focus on closing deals instead.

This isn’t the future—it’s happening right now.

Get your copy of my ebook here!

ACTION STEPS & COMMUNITY QUESTION

Try using the Vulnerability-Power Combo or the 3 Elements of Instant Authority in a conversation this week. Did it change how people responded to you? Reply and let me know!

P.S.
Next week’s edition will reveal a mindset shift that turns obstacles into opportunities (Hint: It’s NOT just about staying positive!).

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Thanks for reading!

Until next week!

Mary Beth