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The Mindset Shift that Turns Pressure Into Fuel
ALSO: The Performance Curve Principle

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Welcome to this week’s edition of The Winning Edge—your weekly jolt of insight, tools, and momentum for becoming a more powerful communicator, leader, and human.
Ever notice how some people thrive under pressure while others crumble?
It’s not talent or toughness—it’s mental framing.
This week, we’re diving into a simple shift that helps high performers turn stress into strategy and stay sharp when it matters most.
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This Week’s Insights
✅ The Pressure Reframe Technique – A mental shift elite performers use to activate, not collapse
✅ The Performance Curve Principle – Why the right kind of stress makes you sharper
✅ The Reset Question – A 6-word tool to regain control in real time
✅ Copilot for PowerPoint – How to build 3 pitch variations in one click
✅ AI Tool of the Week – Turn messy brainstorms into structured plans in seconds
THE MAIN EVENT
🎤 The Pressure Reframe Technique
Everyone talks about staying calm under pressure—but that’s not the full picture.
Elite performers don’t avoid pressure. They reframe it to fuel their focus.
Here’s the truth:
🧠 Your brain doesn’t always know the difference between anxiety and excitement—both create the same physiological response.
So what separates top communicators and leaders?
They’ve trained themselves to label pressure as activation energy, not threat.
⚡ Try this:
Instead of saying, “I’m nervous,” say, “I’m activated.”
This tells your brain: “I’m ready,” not “I’m in danger.”
🔄 The Reset Question
When stress peaks, ask yourself:
“What’s useful right now?”
This 6-word reframe pulls you out of the spiral and into strategy.
It doesn’t ignore the pressure—it redirects it.
📌 Use it when:
A meeting is spiraling off-track
You’re preparing for a high-stakes pitch
You just got critical feedback
You’ll shift from reacting to responding with clarity.
QUICK HITTERS: Fast Wins for the Week
💡 Tip of the Week: Treat nerves as a sign that something matters. Lean in, not away. Growth doesn’t happen in neutral.
📊 Stat of the Week: Research from Stanford shows reframing stress as enhancing leads to 23% better performance in public speaking tasks.
🎭 Power Move: Before your next big moment, strike a “power pose” for 2 minutes. Shoulders back. Chest open. It boosts testosterone and lowers cortisol.
📖 Recommended Read: “The Upside of Stress” by Kelly McGonigal – A science-backed rethinking of how stress can fuel your success instead of sabotage it.
WEEKLY DEEP DIVE
The Performance Curve Principle
🔄 The Performance Curve Principle
Think of your performance like a curve—on the Yerkes-Dodson model, you perform best under moderate levels of arousal (yes, that’s the scientific term!).
Too little stress = boredom
Too much = overwhelm
The sweet spot = focused energy
How to Find Your Peak Zone:
1️⃣ Name the Pressure – Is it urgency, fear of failure, fear of judgment? Naming it gives you power over it.
2️⃣ Reframe It – Pressure means: “This matters.” You don’t feel pressure about things you don’t care about.
3️⃣ Ritualize the Moment – Use a consistent pre-performance cue:
🎧 A song, 📝 a breathing routine, or 🎤 a practice line. Rituals give your brain certainty.
4️⃣ Zoom Out – Ask yourself, “Will this matter in 5 weeks?” That simple question shrinks the perceived threat instantly.
🎯 Bonus: When pressure hits, don’t shrink. Expand.
Own the moment. Use the nerves. Let them sharpen you, not shrink you.
AI TIP OF THE WEEK
🔧 Tool: NotebookLM by Google
Use it for: Instantly generating slide content and talking points from your own notes, PDFs, or meeting recaps.
🧠 What makes it unique:
NotebookLM isn’t just summarizing text—it builds context-aware insights by understanding your specific content. You “train” it on your materials, and it acts like a smart research assistant tailored to your brain.
🎤 How to use it for presentations:
Upload your research, docs, or messy brainstorming notes.
Ask: “Generate a 5-slide presentation on this topic for a non-technical audience.”
It gives you slide content, suggested speaker notes, and even analogies—grounded in your original source material.
✅ Perfect for consultants, sales teams, and founders who want original, high-trust decks without starting from scratch.
💻 Copilot PowerPoint Presentation News
Prompt of the Week
This week’s Copilot tip is a pitch-deck game-changer.
📊 Prompt of the Week:
“Create 3 slide variations for a 5-minute pitch introducing a new product—1 persuasive, 1 technical, 1 executive summary.”
🎬 What it gives you:
Unique slide layouts per audience
Adjusted tone and pacing
Suggested visuals and analogies
Perfect for sales leaders, startup founders, or anyone tailoring messages to different decision-makers.
📌 Pro Tip: Use it to A/B test your messaging tone before the actual presentation.
👉 Download the guide here and let CoPilot do the heavy lifting while you shine on stage.
ACTION STEPS & COMMUNITY QUESTION
✅ Your challenge this week:
Next time you feel pressure rising, use the “I’m activated” reframe and ask:
“What’s useful right now?”
Then take that one small, forward-moving action.
📥 Reply and let me know how it worked—I might feature your insight next week.
P.S.
Next week, I’m sharing a real-world success story from someone who went from overlooked to undeniable—just by making one small shift in how they communicated. It’s practical, powerful, and something you can apply immediately. Don’t miss it.
Keep building your edge—one conversation at a time.
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Until next week!
Mary Beth